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DandR4hands4men 54M/54M
517 berichten
5/3/2018 1:30 pm
45 Days of Heaven & Hell!

This is another long and personal one, so feel free to move on to something else. lol And I realize it has been a bit of a stretch since the last time I posted. In fact, several of the guys I use to be acquainted with, have either moved on or hell, I forgot their names. I had to look one up before I discovered he wouldn't be needed in this post. lol

In my absence, there haven't been many people paying me attention. Thank you for the flirt, Bjhogan! It is nice to be remembered! lol Dansdick....still looks amazing! lol Akl1234, I like this picture so much better! I hope it is working for you like it is working for me! lol And then there is the other guy, so I'm not announcing because I'm not sure he is ready for it yet, but he is my big crush on the site right now. So if he is ready, he might know who he is, and if a few other guys think that it is them, that's okay too! lol

So those of you looking for a massage episode, are going to be disappointed this time around. And those of you looking for recaps of my parties, this is going to be a downer for you, though I did have a great time at yesterday's affair! Those looking for the latest on some of my guys...here we go. Billy...Hasn't done any work, hasn't been any play. Robbie...hung out with some after the party last night and again this morning before he left. Stephane...is slowly fading into the background, since his old lady came back and now she is expecting. I'm still in the picture, as he has poor taste in ladies and always comes back. Devin...still something special, though we haven't seen a great deal of each other lately. Mostly love texts at this point. And Sawyer, Wonderful when he wants to be, but he's slipping up again, and I'm not suppose to know this from long distance. So we will see!


What I feel the need to talk about today is, my birthday celebration. And the fact that there are actually two of them. And the fact that the biggest one, currently about to start, is not the important one. And the smaller one, later in the year, is the one that truly matters!

Decades and years ago, at about this time, the experiment that is me, was born. Now, the sperm donor and I had a very volatile relationship before he passed on. Let's just say he had plans and ideas for me that didn't come to pass. And one of them was... my name. He had a hideous name picked out for me, and apparently, it was ingrained on the brain. In fact, hours after I was born, the only way my mother could get him to change his mind was...making me a junior. As time went on, nothing grew good grew between the two of us, and I had to carry that name much longer than I wanted to. So my first birthday is the day the shell was born, and the second is the day my soul entered the picture.

Over time, I grew into the creature I am today, and along the way, picked up some friends, fans, a following or whatever, and this is where the title of the post comes in. LOL


Having worked in several bars, being liked in several communities and most importantly, being true to myself in front of so many people, my big day has been celebrated far beyond the scope of what even makes sense anymore!

Let's talk about the bars for a bit. And amazingly, most of them are no longer with us. In fact, it is a running joke that whenever I stop attend a bar regularly, it closes. The 501, for example, celebrated my birthday basically the whole month of March. In fairness, it was mainly Friday and Saturday nights and every Undie Monday in March, because I pretty much took over the bar and had my way. But it was awesome. Another great bar who made a big deal out of my big day was the Unicorn, the local male stripper bar. I huge out many nights there, and the strippers in particular loved me. I didn't mind spending money when I was having a good time, and my favorites knew how to get me there! I find it shocking looking back over that period...2 strippers actually asked me out and another one, I actually dated for a number of years. And if count the ones I spent extra time with, DAMN! I was either a hot mess or a lucky, busy son of a bitch. And since I consider that period one of the best of my life, I'm going with the later! lol Then there was the music and a certain bartender at Tubes, a video bar I use to frequent. And NYC, where another bartender, a cocktail server and a certain spot on the dance floor always seem to be mine! And in Saint Louis, Magnolia's and a certain bartender there, and the Bad Dog, and even J.J's were immensely helpful spread the love for me around. And in Kansas City, there was DB Warehouse, and NV's Martini & Stripper night, and Missie B's, and that little dive bar next to Sidekick's, again because if you had enough money, you could pretty much take it over. Oh, the scandals and the stories I could tell, but I will continue to protect Fred, Ken, James, Sam and both Steve's. lol And let's not forget the Code at the Flamingo Resort in St. Petersburg, Florida! And it isn't just the bars...

The groups I facilitate with their parties and such, they feel like they have to remember me too. There is always an awesome strip poker extravaganza in both Kansas City and Indianapolis to celebrate this particular occasion, because strip poker nights are my favorite events! And what screams party more than Spring Break and a Nudie Game Night! Darts, billiards, Twister, poker, hell even tennis, football and trivia, always makes for one hell of a night! Hell, this year, there is an extra party in Newcastle to celebrate the big occasion.

And then there are the other's that get squeezed in where they can. I still try to do the family thing with the clan I was born into. And when I was removed from that group, a group of my junior high school and high school friends filled in the gap and became my real family. And as time has gone on, I've "adopted" a family from mainly bar people, though a couple of my sons were kids who started a situation similar to mine, and I wish that period of time to be repeated on no one, especially to do it alone. All of these are occasions to celebrate. And then there are my girls in Kansas City. Real women, not drag queens. I call them queer dears, because there is not redeeming about neither fag or hag to me! Anyway, those three ladies usually throw me a themed party for the occasion every years, and it is awesome to see what they come up with and what they do to top the year before. The "It's Raining Men" One will always stick out in my mind as one of my favorites. When the strippers didn't show up, the girls manage to get all the men there to strip down to their underwear at midnight...for me! It was awesome, and in several cases, I have never looked at their husbands, sons and some of their son's friends the same again! lol


And keep in mind, this is all for what I consider to be my lesser birthday. The one that basically celebrates when this form was create. I'd much rather the day the essence of who I am became legally recognized. But they don't go all out for that one. I might get two or three parties for that one, and one of them will be at my own doing! lol

Let's see if I'm still young enough to do this thing! lol Wish me luck!!!

bjhogan 66M
1950 berichten
6/3/2018 2:10 pm

HAPPY BIRTHDAY & WOW !! WHAT A LIFE YOU HAVE LED !!! i always enjoy your blogs ! even if it's not about seXXX !! there is more to being gay /homosexual than just sucking and fucking ! altho that is why we are on this site !lol me being a late cummer to the gay party/lifestyle ! i have enjoyed meating new gay friends ! socializing ! with the anual GAY PRIDE FESTIVAL in AUSTIN being the HIGHLIGHT for me !!! surrounded by MY GAY FAMILY the twinks ! the go go dancers ! the fems ! the bears ! the otters ! the jocks ! leather men !and those lovely drag Queens ! all of us minigling as ONE ! all accepting our gay individuality ! it's when like you ,, i truly feel alive ! and embraced ! and then there are the summers at HIPPY HOLLOW on LAKE TRAVIS !! where we can all go nude as we have a gay section ! and have the big memorial day and labor day celebrations to mark the beginning & END OF SUMMER !! literaly hundreds of nekid gays enjoying life ! while lewd behavior is not allowed ! i have been known to discreetly suck a man off ! ok ok , more than one !


DandR4hands4men replies on 7/3/2018 10:47 am:
I've got to say, Bj, I didn't see that coming. I didn't think you would care for this one very much. Thank you for the delightful surprise, and a better understanding of the gay experience as a whole. Sadly, some get stuck on the sexual arena and don't come to fully appreciate the rest!

I personally think I have done just about everything a true gay man can do on this Earth...Semi-retired drag queen, escort turned masseur, porn, though it was back in the day of magazines and I was a writer and the inspiration for another, so I've been told, instructor for some of the go-go guys at the Unicorn, sex surrogate to coming out homosexuals, and the list goes on. If it didn't have anything to do with vaginas or making my own kid, I have probably done it! lol

And in all honesty, I have been privileged, blessed and honored to enjoy my big, wonderful, gay ass life. Love it! Wouldn't change it! Gonna keep living it until I can't no more! lol

mral65 58M
366 berichten
6/3/2018 8:48 pm

Happy birthday Remi! While celebrating the occasion don't do anything I wouldn't! well, ok go ahead and do it anyway, but be sure to tell us all about it


DandR4hands4men replies on 7/3/2018 10:52 am:
Thank you very much, Mral65! I don't know if I will share it all, but I will share some of the highlights. Now how about you give me a real present, and I will even give you a choice! Post something or that blog of yours OR plan a getaway for yourself this month...just to let your hair down for a bit and have a gay ole time!

I will know which one you chose the next time I check out your blog! lol